Member Monday: All in the family

I know, I know. It isn’t Monday. I also know that I didn’t post on Friday. I was rerouted by a wonderful visit from my Mom and Dad, then my sister-in-law, her husband, and her two kiddos (under two years old) showed up. Needless to say, there was no peace or quiet but there was tons of fun. The 20 month old fell in love with our yellow lab. First word out of his mouth each morning? “LUCY!”

With all that was going on: parades, beach, playing outside, weeding gardens, going to baseball games, grocery shopping, laundry… no internet happened at all. No blogging, no email responses, no twitter and absolutely nothing wrong with that. It was great to get a break from the computer. The world in front of us and all around us is the one we must inhabit. Still, as a writer, the worlds I build in my WIP’s often seem as real, and as important as those flesh and blood settings in which I reside. A part of me needs the solitary activities of writing and drawing.

This makes me think about the upcoming summer months. Writing definitely has its rhythms. I write more in the October to December, and January to April season then most of the rest of the year, but I’d like to work all year long. I pulled my kiddos aside last night at dinner to discuss the fact that Mom still wants to work even when they are out of school. Did they have suggestions about how we would manage that? The conversation quickly refocused on them and whether or not they were old enough for jobs in town so I never got my answer. I’m curious, how do those of you with tweens and young teens make time to write in the summer?

At home today, waves of thunder and lightning crash outside my window. In the quiet space in between, the rain beats on the shingles, and birds twitter and chirp. My house is dark and calm and silent. Dog is snuggled on the rug. I am revising.

What does a super mom look like?

On May 1st, I posted this to do list. 

  • Final 36" x 36" drawing for college drawing class due Wednesday on "The mythology of epiphanies."
  • Submit application packets for Falmouth and Brunswick art teacher positions.
  • Work on VCFA personal and critical essays for submission next Friday.
  • Final paper and project due for Color Theory, May 11.
  • Revise picture book for agent.
  • Re-read, novel taking notes.

Today it looks like this:

  • Final 36" x 36" drawing for college drawing class due Wednesday on "The mythology of epiphanies."
  • Submit application packets for Falmouth and Brunswick art teacher positions.
  • Work on VCFA personal and critical essays for submission next Friday.
  • Final paper and project due for Color Theory, May 11.
  • Revise picture book for agent.
  • Re-read novel, taking notes for revision.
  • Study for Praxis Art Educator Test

I’m feeling very accomplished and very creative. I can’t tell you how much time I’ve reclaimed without the responsibility of the conference. Looking back, I’m starting to wonder. How did I do all that? How did I direct a conference, freelance, do my creative work, take two college classes, do laundry and keep the kitchen clean (and that’s about all for house cleaning), and otherwise take care of my family duties (often with my husband away). I must say, I’m feeling a little like a super Mom!

Alright, maybe not. Maybe more like this:


Or this:

You choose.